Well to update on the matter
Ok, that last part really killed it for me.It's no shock to people i was slowly leaving the bjd hobby, but that last bunch of drama tipped over the bucket entirely. And for those who dont know (im sorry but i wont go into full detail cuz thats between me and said person) but i had a transaction going with someone, at first i didn't want to go public about this, because i find this extremely unproffesional, and she did this anyway, and now that she has filed a claim against me, i can safely say the drama is over and i can sit down and rant about it. Besides, it's not like she aint either. What bothers me is the part where it kind of slanders my name as the person i am. I'm personally pissed off by a few people who said negative things about me, as a doll artist that dont even fucking know who i am, or why, or what... And i hate this type of cancer the most. The ignorant ones that follow a crowd and ASSUME. Bitching about me on tumblr and crying: OH BUT SHES AVAILABLE ON DEVIANTART BUT IGNORING DOA HURDURR.
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And for those who follow it closely, because i know a certain crowd does, the against me has dropped and so has my contact with the person in question. That being said it's really a shame it has gotten this far, into even people blocking me from any resources. Which i all find really childish but I'm not gonna stop them, neither any hatred that has come from several people online, towards me. I will only post my side of the story and it's really up to anyone else how you want to take it, or who's side to choose (i personally dont care) because I'm simply not invested into this hobby anymore as i used to, this being part of the reasons. I'm not gonna talk ill of the person, I even publicly apologized over how out of hands things have gotten. And admitted to my mistakes, I'm only human, I make them. But in my eyes I didn't do anything wrong, there were some things wrong with the doll I sold that were out of my hands and knowledge, and i will keep saying this. It reminds me of that time, I dont remember who it was but they sold someone (without any knowledge of it) a recast to another person on Den of Angels. Even though this case is nowhere near that bad, nor was the doll I sold by any means a recast, there was only a part (the headcap) that has been replaced by one of the previous owner. As much as i know at least, it's all really confusing, it -has- gotten out of hand dramastically, alike that case....And aside some (removeable stains despite what she claims) there's really no reason as to why this would deserve a full refund. Because that really is all that was wrong with the matter, and i really dont understand these "false advertisement" that keeps being said. And I've countlessly countered this arguement with the same, where a lot of responsibility was with the buyer, and not the seller amongst things.
What stresses me the most is, how quick or eager some are to follow a crowd but not get the full jist of the story. And i dont blame the buyer's friends for backing her up, it's what mine would do too. Regardless, if i were indeed as wrong as these people are stating, even some of my friends in this hobby wouldve stepped forward, and tell me. And this is where it gets even more confusing, because opinions in these hobby, are so 50/50 sometimes. There's really no grey in between. And only a few people i've spoken on DA said (what i was hoping) aside from telling me they felt sorry for my problem, that they regardless dont know the full story therefore cant tell a 100% whether or not I'm in the wrong or right. And this is only fair, I'm not god. Despite some praising my work, and the amount of good responses i recieve to it. It doesn't define who i am, and it's really in these kinds of situations where you get to see a bad or good side of me. Depending on what you've read, and believe in. It's certaintly not gonna stop me from doing the things i like, and if that involves taking BJD pictures, I will. I've said it before but i just wont be as active or busy with it as i used to. I've changed, this comunity (Feels like) it has changed, and not in a way I like it. I see so many other bjd artists just leaving because they're so sick of it and i -dont- blame them at all. there's a lot of poison in this comunity, and some ill go very far to achieve this, and speak ill of others. But that's seriously the last you'll see from me because i find this behavior so childish all together. At least I can own up to it and admit there's been a problem and I really dont mind where my reputation gets me, because to me it is nonexistant in the first place. I'm just a girl, who loves taking pictures of dolls, loves cosplaying and videogames. I'm a stupid geek like each and everyone of you, and dont ever treat me like I'm less or more, and certaintly not more. Just because i take 'pretty doll pictures' doesn't put me above others. Certaintly not by any means an advantage on cases like this. Because we've had comunication with Paypal throughout this case, and all the information they recieved from both parties, they agreed in our favor. So no I'm not loosing any money over this, but i might lost some followers, nd that is equally bad to me. But it cannot be changed, and i certaintly cant change people's minds. I dont want to, you like what you like, and you dont have to get along with everyone. I'm just asking said people to take this with a little grain of salt, before jumping on the bandwagon..